Friday, October 12, 2007

Solange talks to Essence about her "Marriage" and The Life Not Being Beyonce



Can you just say poppa knowles really did have alot to do with me marrying homeboy....Poppa wasn't about to have his daughter bringing out no baby out of wed... come on! and that's nothing but the truth so help me gossip!




ESSENCE.com: As you know there’s a lot of mystery surrounding your relationship with your husband, Daniel Smith, so let’s just go ahead and get that out of the way. Are you still married?

Solange Knowles: Well, I am no longer married, but I think it’s very important not to dish details. We are friends and we coparent our son. When he gets older I don’t want him to read anything about me saying anything about his father or vice versa. When there’s a child involved I think the less information given is best.

ESSENCE.com: So just to clear things up, how did you two meet?

S.K.: We met at a high school party through mutual friends. He was in high school and I was 13 and in middle school. We were together seven years, so it wasn’t just some random guy. We were basically high school sweethearts.

ESSENCE.com: Do you have any regrets about the situation? Did you feel forced or pressured to get married?

S.K.: No, I think every decision has made me who I am today. I’ve embraced everything because I know that only God can give life, no one else. I’m happy that I have a beautiful, wonderful, amazing child who’s made me a better person.

ESSENCE.com: Speaking of which, let’s talk about little Daniel Julez. How old is he now? Is he talking?

S.K.: Oh gosh, yes, he’s more than talking and has a smart mouth already. He’ll be 3 this month.

ESSENCE.com: Considering the talent that runs in your family, do you think he’s headed for the industry?

S.K.: Unfortunately, it seems like something he’s interested in. He really likes the limelight.

ESSENCE.com: He made an appearance on the Today Show with you to promote Baby Jamz. What is it and how did that come about?

S.K.: Baby Jamz is a passion project for me inspired by my son, who loves hip-hop music. I wanted to do a children’s album, which I talked about in the media a couple of times. This toy company that wanted to launch an urban toy line reached out to my father about me. I ended up giving them a lot of ideas and became an executive on the account. I had to go to Bentonville, Arkansas (Wal-Mart’s headquarters), put on my suit and make this presentation. It was really cool for me and good training as an executive. (These toys are available exclusively at Wal-Mart.)

ESSENCE.com: So does your son actually play with the toys?

S.K.: Oh, absolutely. And I’m kind of sick of hearing my voice on them.